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it, MINOR detail, they don't love you at all. Love is whlsiotic. It is all-encompassing. If someone who loves you suddenly doesn't because of a minor detail then they don't love you; they love their idealized vision of you. As a 34 year old who started coming out slowly a few years back I've found great freedom in letting people know me the whole me. And I've allowed myself to be surprized at how many people even ones I thought would HATE my homosexuality don't treat me any differently. I might as well have told them my real hair colour isn't brown, it's sandy blonde LOL!